Emotional attachment can be easily triggered when being regularly and sexually connected with someone. They say time lives feelings, which is totally true. The feelings are generated by friendships and romantic relationships. You are either going to become friends or lovers. When it involves two persons of the opposite gender, the latter situation is more possible. In other words, if you are having a regular sexual relationship with a girl, it is possible that the husband might easily develop a romantic feeling towards the third girl and vice versa.
I had such experience in my life, but I am lucky enough to have a loving wife who understood the situation and stopped it in time. It was not me, but her.
Back a few years ago, when we firstly established a swinger lifestyle, we had two regular threesome partners of the opposite gender whom we found them both on tinder for couples dating apps. They were both cute and lovely. We got along very well. That was also the reason we chose to have them accompany us regularly. Having regular threesomes does spice up our relationship. We became more caring and generous to each other. However, I felt that the passion between us was also fading away gradually because of threesome, mainly for my wife.
One day, when we were having threesome with our threesome partner Tony, who has been with us for several months, I sensed something wrong and irregular. I was a quite sensitive and prudential man. I can always sense the emotions of people, that included my wife’s. When Tony was penetrating her from her back, I saw my wife’s eye. It was so tender and loving, just like she used to when we were first together. I knew she had feelings for Tony. It struck me like a lightning, but I didn’t let my temper outburst. I held it back until we finished that threesome and saw Tony out. I wasn’t happy and my wife noticed that. When she asked, I pretend to be calm and said ”I know that eye when you looked at Tony. Are you having a crush on him?” She was shocked for seconds and said “Are you kidding? What are you thinking? That’s absurd! Of course, I don’t like him.” That was an overreaction. It was confirmed that she liked him. I was so depressed that I couldn’t say a word.
The next day, my wife told me that we should cancel the plan of having regular threesome partners. I was so glad and so relieved to hear her say that. It meant she cared our relationship more than her feelings to Tony. I am lucky to have her.